The relationship between real estate agent, homebuyer and seller is an important, yet sometimes complicated, collaboration. While professional in nature, this particular relationship serves to support the transition of a living space from one set of hands to another, and this type of transaction can become very personal.
Thus, it’s important as a homebuyer – as well as a seller and Realtor – to maintain certain levels of etiquette throughout the process. As a homebuyer, you will be moving through someone else’s space, and it’s your charge to be careful and respectful while on the home hunt.
Prepare to be open when calling your real estate agent, a property owner or while attending an open house. You will need to be forthcoming with your name, current address and contact information when viewing potential properties. Not signing the guest book at an open house is considered rude, and the owners of a house on the market – as well as the Realtor you hire to represent your interests – deserve to know who they’re working with.
Get pre-approved for a home loan before seeking a real estate agent. Showing homes and helping you navigate the purchasing process is a Realtor’s profession; as such, his or her livelihood depends on your being able to afford a home. Have your pre-approval paperwork in order before setting out to find an agent that’s right for you.
Stay in close contact with your real estate agent once you’ve entered into a working relationship and / or contractual agreement. If you see a property you’re interested in, shoot your agent an email instead of calling the homeowner directly. If you’re displeased with your agent, be upfront. If you want to meet a seller, allow your agent to set up a meeting. Never contract with two agents simultaneously. As with any relationship, the Realtor-buyer relationship should be built on mutual respect, honesty and courtesy.
There are often situations in which questions of homebuyer etiquette arise. Be forthcoming and upfront by simply asking a local Realtor what’s appropriate. If you have a question, contact Charlotte real estate agent Katie Gray by calling 704.560.9699.


Trying to sell your Charlotte home this season? With competitive prices and a flooded market, you’ll have to do more than put a sign in the front yard and add a fresh coat of paint. While taking those actions is advisable – as well as adding curb appeal and hiring a Realtor – you’ll need to do more to make your home stand out from the others for sale in your area.